Cultural Tips
Since that the Sulongsons are Eurasians, they have incorpated many Malay and European traditions into their daily lives, and some of them are listed below.
General
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Always point at a person with your thumb.
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A man should give way to a lady first.
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Never toss an object across your room - instead pass the object over by hand to the person you're planning to give it to.
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Never show the soles of your feet at someone.
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Your feet must be off the table at all times.
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If you wish to speak to a person from the other corner of the room, please do not shout across the room - instead approach them in person and then you can talk to them.
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When attending a meeting or a social gathering, a man should not sit down when a lady is present in the room standing.
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A younger person should offer the older person a seat first.
Dining
- Cover your mouth when you're toothpicking.
- Always use your right hand to eat and pass dishes around.
- If you're dining with a group of people, you must wait for the host of the table to permit everyone to eat before you can start eating.
- Try to eat as silently as you can.
- Place a napkin on your lap while eating - if you're away from the table, please place it on your chair to indicate you're still using the chair.
- After you finish eating, place your napkin on the table.
Gifts
- Not opening up gifts in front of others.
Entering a building
- Remove your footwear whenever you enter a building, particularly a house and a place of worship.
